One of the arguments Mad
Men has persistently made throughout its run, and in this season in particular,
is about change. For much of season six it appeared as though the argument was
that people couldn’t change, but, in fact, we saw plenty of people changing, they just weren't Don
Draper. His protégée Peggy was becoming more confident and business-like,
turning herself more Don Draper at heart then she’d care to admit. Pete learned
from the mistakes of his past and didn’t expose Bob (although that may have
proven more trouble than it’s worth – but more on that later). Joan took up the
Avon account to get more out of her career that had been missing previously.
Sally stopped monolithically loving her father. Betty lost her weight and took
more charge in her life. Meghan got fed up with Don and walked out. Bob Benson
reinvented himself and got a job at SCDP.
And yet Don is perpetually calcified. This season for myself
and many others has been a frustrating season for the show. Many argued that
the show had a “Don Draper Problem”. It’s easy to see why; dramatically
speaking, it’s not entirely the most interesting thing to watch someone hit the
rock bottom that Don has been mired in this season. Don often became the least
interesting part of the show. Intellectually, it was still interesting to see,
but emotionally my mind was intently hoping for more Joan stories or more Peggy
or more Roger (all of whom didn’t seem to get nearly enough screentime this
season). But the finale appears to make a case for Don actually changing.
Don in the episode’s last moments opens up to his children,
and most importantly to Sally. He takes them to the whorehouse where he was
raised, and had a shitty childhood. This childhood he recounts at a sales
meeting with Hershey. This scene is sort of surreal; it feels almost as if it
comes from another show. Don is revealing information that he’s kept so close
to the vest for so long that it’s like the show breathing a sigh as a great weight
is lifted from it. May be Don is ready to change.
Not all that change is coming directly from himself though.
The partners have a meeting where the topic is “Don Get Your Shit Together”. The
partners tell Don that he needs to take some time off because he hasn’t been doing
anyone any good this whole season. He’s been flailing at best and destructive
at worse. It’s been a long time coming, but this is an episode that attacks
long time coming plot points and jumps at them with relish.
Peggy and Ted finally act on their feelings (helped along by
sexy dress and some knowing cleavage). But instead of this being a
happy moment (this is Mad Men after
all), the event turns Ted into crisis mode. When he returns home to his wife,
the look of guilt and pain is despairing. I was struck in this episode by how
much Ted comes off like Don (not entirely surprising from a season obsessed with doppelgangers and posed Ted as another version of Don). There are some incredibly pointed pieces of
dialogue spoken that aren’t about Don, but might as well be. For instance, when
Ted tells Peggy “I don’t want anyone else to have you”, it’s exactly how we
know Don feels and acts towards Peggy. Similarly, when he later tells Peggy he’s
leaving for California, he says about his family, “I need to hold onto them or
I’ll get lost in the chaos”. When Don lost Sally this season, he spiraled
downward. It was the worst we’ve ever seen him at. The chaos also can doubly
refer to the state New York is falling into with the race riots and general
violence arising.
Pete’s trouble with Bob Benson and his mother also come to a
head. His mother marries Manolo, before he apparently throws her into the ocean
killing her (um, because why the heck not). Pete in his anger and frustration
goes after Bob. But Bob is shrewder than Pete gives him credit for. Pete said
last episode that confronting people like Don and Bob, who have thrown away
their former past, never ends well. And here we see that on full display. Bob
takes advantage of his knowledge that Pete can’t drive stick to make Pete look
like a fool in front of the Chevy executives. There’s a Camaro on display in
the hotel lobby, and Bob insists that Pete get behind the wheel. In a very
funny scene, Pete flustered backs up into a display sign, toppling it over and
barely avoids hurting anyone. He’s immediately taken off the Chevy account, and
soon after decides to head out to California to head up the Sunkist account.
Pete has proven good time and again at recognizing trends and embracing them,
but rarely is he ever good at affecting change himself. He can change with the times
but he can’t change the times. To quote David Bowie, “Time can change me. But I
can’t change time”.
Change is happening all over (I haven’t even gotten to Roger
or Meghan). But by far the strangest element to this episode and the one that
is likely a deal breaker for whether you really liked it are the flashbacks and
the thematic material they bring into the episode. Mad Men has struggled with flashbacks lately. They haven’t felt
organically placed into the episodes they’ve been in, and they’ve also felt
somewhat unnecessary. They have shown Don’s time growing up in a whorehouse; he watches his step-mother whore herself out to his douchey uncle, and he gets
deflowered (and technically raped) by a well-meaning prostitute who was the
closest thing to a mother figure he had. It’s some fucked up stuff and it
played into the season’s interest with prostitution. At the end of “The Crash”,
Don bluntly equates the office with a whorehouse. He’s whole relationship with
Sylvia had a quality of prostitution (he pays her off at one point) and when
Sally walked in on them Sylvia was repaying a favor.
The flashbacks, howeverm aren’t about prostitution but religion and
faith. Don’s uncle throws out a priest from the whore house who was attempting
to help save the prostitutes from eternal damnation. When we return from the
flashback, we learn that Don has gone to prison for drunkenly punching a priest
who was describing freedom from pain through Jesus. In the flashback, as the
priest left he tells Don “the only unpardonable sin is to believe that god will
not forgive you”. So Don believes he’s beyond saving. He’s beyond forgiveness.
This is for a host of reasons but the
crucial one is for fucking things up so bad with Sally. The way he dances
around avoiding picking up her and calling her demonstrate just how strained
his relationship has become with her. When he calls her, Sally is as fiery and
spiteful as ever. She spits in Don’s face: “I wouldn’t want to do anything
immoral”. The scene ties into the larger question of salvation and doing the
right thing.
Can Don be saved? That’s sort of been the question the show
has always been asking. Can Don change? Can he find inner peace and just lead
his life without all this self-loathing? We won’t know for sure until the final
season, but “In Care Of” seems to suggest there may just be hope for Don. It’s
not complete and total hope. The way the partners confront him suggest he still
has a lot of work to do to fix himself, but taking his kids to the whorehouse
also feels like a necessary step towards acceptance and forgiveness. Perhaps
Don has accepted the priest’s advice. Perhaps he has forgiven himself. Perhaps he can change.
Stray Thoughts:
*Peggy sits in Don’s office with the shot from behind her.
She is Don Draper. She just doesn’t realize it. Also the line about Don's office: “It’s where
everything is” is a great one.
*Stan wants to go to California until he learns Don is
going. Don is rotten and he hurts everything he comes in contact with. Why
would people want anything to do with him?
*Roger gets to have Thanksgiving with his son. It’s a small
step forward. Baby steps people. Though, he’s going to have to get used to Bob’s
presence.
*The Grandma Ida burglary has not yet been forgotten. It’s
the reason Don has to call Sally to tell her that she’s been subpoenaed to make
a statement.
*Roger giving a performance review to Bob (who of course has
never had one) is a great little scene. Roger’s struggle to accept his relationship
where it is with Joan plays out really briefly in this episode.
*Sally is suspended for buying beer with a fake idea. Sally
is such a rebel.
* When Ted tells Don, “I know there’s a good person in there”,
it really seems to trigger something in Don. It also ties in nicely to the
religious/salvation themes.
*There’s Don’s initial ad pitch to Hershey which is a
comforting lie (and, not coincidentally, his best sales pitch this season) and then his story about his
real childhood which in juxtaposition just reminds us how bad Don’t life was.
The monologue about his childhood is one of the best scenes and Jon Hamm, not
unexpectedly, nails it. It’s not the right time or place to tell such things
but Don needs Ted to understand where he’s coming from before letting him take
the spot to California.
*Meghan was pretty happy about moving to California but she’s
done with Don’s crap once he tells her that the plan has change. And how
terrible and stupid it is that Don thinks they could live on opposite sides of
the country and it would be work.
*Pete's scene with Trudy another great scene. Trudy suggest that Pete has finally gotten what he want all along. If only he had accepted what he wanted sooner. As if the Don parallels weren't strong enough!
*Of course, Peggy thinks it’s Don fault that Ted is leaving,
but nope Ted’s own initiative. Next season very well could be very large on the
relationship between Don and Peggy which still hasn’t really been confronted
entirely.
Grade: A